Eleven things before 11 a.m.

 The lovely Eli of Today My Way tagged me and provided me with these fun questions to answer, and I thought it would be a nice break from my heavier posts lately.

If you want to answer these questions, please share them on your blog! I'd love to read them. :)

1. Your mantra of the moment: "I never have yet felt a twinge of regret for being a little too kind."
2. Your favorite destination for a romantic break: Kona, Hawaii (where we went on our honeymoon).
3. Your most treasured possession: My great-grandmother's wedding ring from the 1930s.
4. Obscure fact few people know about you: I can perfectly imitate the Teen Girl Squad characters' voices.
   
5. What's your latest obsession? I am in love with EOS lip balm, especially the green mint kind.
6. Your fantasy career: A coffee shop singer like Ingrid Michaelson.
7. It's perfectly OK to... eat candy that falls on the floor (as long as you pick it up within 10 seconds).
8. What gets easier as you get older? Letting things go — and realizing that you can't control everything.
9. Thing you'd like to tell your 16-year-old self: You'll be married to the most wonderful man you can imagine, and life will surprise you every day.
10. Spring makes you... want to buy flowers and eat sandwiches in the park.
11. Your best advice: Find out what you're good at and what you're passionate about, and do that as much as you can. Don't focus on your weaknesses or the things that make you unhappy.

Writing Wednesday: Three steps to link your email to your Blogger profile

Technically, this post is not really about writing/grammar. However, it is about a way that you help me be a better blogger — and be a better blogger yourself! Take just three minutes and link your email address to your Blogger profile.

Here's how to do it:

1. From your Blogger dashboard, click the drop-down menu next to your name in the right corner of the screen, and then click "Blogger profile."

2. Click the orange "Edit profile" button on the right.

3. Check the box next to "Show my email address."

That's it! SO easy, right? You may be wondering why you should do this, though, so here are several reasons it can benefit you AND other readers:

• It makes it easy for someone to respond to your comment or question. I love receiving your kind comments on my blog, and I'd like to thank you personally or answer the questions you have in an email. Unfortunately, if your profile isn't linked to your email address, I can't email you unless I can somehow find contact info on your blog — and that means I have to leave a totally random comment on your blog answering your question (or not respond at all). Please help a sister out and link your email address so I can connect with you! :)
• Someone can easily contact you about a giveaway. This might sound out of place, but if you read a lot of blogs like I do and enter contests and giveaways, you know that entering your email address and contact information time after time can get REALLY old. When you link your email to your blog, you make it easy for another blogger to contact you. Who knows? You might win a giveaway and not even know because they have no way of getting in touch with you.
• Your followers can quickly see your contact information and get a hold of you. If you don't have an email address listed on your blog that followers can use to contact you AND your profile isn't linked to your blog, it's nearly impossible for people to email you with questions or opportunities. Linking your blog with your email address is a simple way for people to find a way to connect with you.

There you have it. If you're not already linked up, I really encourage you to take a few minutes and make that change. I'd love to be able to respond to your kind comments personally! Do you have more tips on connecting with other bloggers?

Write up my alley

OK, you have to excuse the lame pun as the post title, but it was what came to mind. I promised that I was going to talk more about writing on this blog, since it's one of my passions, so that's what today's post is about.

I don't consider myself an expert on blogging. If I were, I'd be one of those women who has thousands of followers and doesn't have a day job. But after four years of blogging and reading more blogs than I'd care to admit (let's just say that it takes me about an hour to get through all of the blogs I read every day), I feel like I can share the following tips with you if you're looking for ways to make your blog more readable and user-friendly. Take them with a grain of salt. Your blog should be personal and unique, like you are. These are just a few things I've found helpful.

Fonts need to be legible and can make or break your blog. This sounds like a no-brainer, but honestly, blogs that use a script font or cutesy scrapbooky font for their main body text are an instant turn-off for me. I love fun fonts just as much as the next girl, but if people can't read what you have to say, they're not going to keep reading your blog. Without getting too much into design principles, I will just recommend that you follow these guidelines with fonts:

1. Choose a sans serif font for your blog's body text. A little graphic design tutorial here: A serif is a stroke that extends from a letter. For example, Times New Roman is a serif font because the letters all have little platforms underneath them or above them. Arial is a sans serif font, as are Century Gothic (one of my personal favorites) and Helvetica. Why should you do this? Sans serif fonts are easier to read -- and if you plan on using a fun font as an accent, you need to have the contrast between the two for a pleasing design.

2. Use a maximum of three fonts on your blog. This sounds limiting, but honestly, it's not. You can take one font (Century Gothic, for example) and bold it, italicize it, enlarge it or shrink it and make it look different. When you have more than three fonts on your blog, it looks cluttered and distracts from the most important thing -- what you're writing. Also, only one of your fonts should be artsy. The trick is to use the bold font as an accent, not as the main font, so that it stands out.

3. Don't get too crazy with the colors. Pay attention to how the color of your text looks against your blog background. If you have a dark background, you need to have light text and vice versa. Neon-colored text is always hard to read, and white can look neon on a really bright blog background. When in doubt, stick with black and a lighter colored background. It's usually easier to read.

4. Strive for a happy medium in font size. Text that's too tiny is impossible to read, and paragraphs written in size 20 font are just obnoxious. The end.

5. Never use Comic Sans MS. This is just my rule. I absolutely detest that font -- and several others. But that is the main one. It just looks tacky and brings people back to 1994 in a bad way.

Break your text into bite-size paragraphs. When you're writing for the web, it's so important to keep your text in small chunks so that it's easy to read. A high school friend of mine (and aspiring writer) once wanted me to read his blog and give me his opinion on it, and I confess, I was only able to read one post of his. He didn't break his text into paragraphs at all, so it was impossible to keep your place. It felt like I was reading a stream of consciousness -- in the worst possible way. When in doubt, keep your paragraphs to no more than five sentences.

Always open links in a new tab. I cannot tell you how annoying it is when bloggers post a link but don't set it to open in a new tab or window. When you don't, it hurts you because a) it sends people away from your blog and makes it frustrating to try to navigate your way back and b) it doesn't allow people to finish reading your post.

Provide visual interest with pictures. This post is a bad example, since it doesn't have a picture, but your blog is always more appealing with at least one photo in it. Unless, of course, it's a crappy photo.

Just my two cents about blogging! What are your blog pet peeves?